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A house is not a home
My ex-husband moved out a few weeks ago. I sit on our couch and... Our Couch We loved visiting Bob's Discount Furniture. Not only was the...
ascoves
Jun 28, 20253 min read


A Series of Love Stories
Things with Book Boyfriend are going well. Really really well. But first... Wine, Walking Pads, and a Knock at the Door The first week my...
ascoves
Jun 25, 20254 min read


Onions have layers. I have an onion.
What are we? I'm finding it really difficult keep things "casual" with Book Boyfriend. Almost every other month, I try to have the "what...
ascoves
Jun 21, 20255 min read


Business Casual
Dirty little secret It's an odd experience when you realize your whole life is changing but no one else is aware. You feel as though...
ascoves
Jun 18, 20256 min read


It is casual now? (Book Boyfriend: Chapter 3)
A series of unfortunate events After two unsuccessful dates and a failed attempt at "Playing the Field," I've decided it's definitely...
ascoves
Jun 14, 20254 min read


The walls were supposed to be pink
THE FIRST STEP was a text "Hey family! S ( my ex-husband ) and I took a really big step today and we want you all to be included. We have...
ascoves
Jun 11, 20254 min read


Creepy Calvin
(All names of men I dated have been changed to respect their privacy.) Swipe Right I'm starting to get the hang of this dating app thing....
ascoves
Jun 7, 20255 min read


I don't know how to be a role model
This post is a love letter to the students who were there for me when I didn't know how to be there for them. Congratulations! If you...
ascoves
Jun 4, 20257 min read


I had a bad date!!! (An evening with The Doc)
Playing the field Alright, fine... I do have a little crush on Book Boyfriend. Yes, he has big arms, he's charming, funny, and even...
ascoves
May 31, 20254 min read


How did it end? Part Two (Amber's Version)
Warning: This post contains explicit content that may be triggering for some, with themes around sex, purity culture, pain, and divorce....
ascoves
May 28, 20255 min read


The Divorce Glow-Up: Abs after "I don't."
Poor thing! Does she have an eating disorder? This breakup really affected her! Could she be on drugs? These were some of the assumptions...
ascoves
May 16, 20255 min read


The Magic Trick That Should Have Ended the Date...But Didn't
If first dates are scary, second ones are terrifying Book Boyfriend invited me to his place. Oh no... I can't go to a boy's house! (Even...
ascoves
May 15, 20253 min read


Dating: My Book Boyfriend
He's the man from all my fantasy books The first time his picture appeared on my iPhone's small screen, I was immediately intrigued. If...
ascoves
May 15, 20254 min read


Family Vacation: Party of Two
"My son will never get to experience a family vacation." Single parents often tell themselves various lies when they first transition to...
ascoves
May 14, 20254 min read


Happy (Single) Mother's Day
Breakfast in Bed? Daydreaming is a wonderful yet risky thing. I recall how challenging Mother's Day felt when my ex and I were trying to...
ascoves
May 11, 20254 min read


Single Mom Life: Oh no.
We both cried When my ex and I decided to divorce, there were several things I understood. I knew I would be single. I knew I would miss...
ascoves
May 9, 20252 min read


Chapter Three: How did it end?
The real reason you're all reading this blog Thanks to social media, we have all become micro-celebrities in our own right. We each have...
ascoves
May 9, 20253 min read


Chapter Two: How did it go?
"Marriage is hard." It's the common advice every married couple feels compelled to share once you announce your engagement. It's as...
ascoves
May 8, 20253 min read


Chapter One: How did it start?
Girl meets boy I still remember the first time I saw him. It was the second semester, freshman year of college. His hair was way too...
ascoves
May 7, 20253 min read
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